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When FAN made a star

In the sweltering heat of 2016, superstar Shah Rukh Khan’s Fan got a “Jabardast” Bhojpuri twist in Manoj Tiwari’s voice. The lyrics penned by Dr Ranju Sinha scorched the musical charts and cooled the heart and soul of Bhojpuri music lovers. The song was released in nine Indian languages, two foreign languages and a mashup version that was a remix version of all the 11 tracks. Here’s SRK Fan Dr Ranju Sinha’s personal relationship with her Superstar.  

Shillpi a singh

If you are a die-hard Shah Rukh Khan Fan from the eastern part of India, where Bhojpuri is the native language, chances are that you would have made a secret wish to see the superstar groove to a Bhojpuri song. Lo and behold, the wish had come true sooner when the Jabardast Fan song from Shah Rukh Khan-starrer was recorded in Bhojpuri, among many other languages. The peppy version was sung by singer, actor and parliamentarian Manoj Tiwari. The Hindi lyricist was Varun Grover, while the Bhojpuri version was penned by Dr Ranju Sinha, a producer, director, and lyricist in Bhojpuri cinema. And like Gaurav in Fan, she states, “Connection Bhi Na Kamaal Ki Cheez Hal, Bas Ho Gaya To Ho Gaya, Mat Pucho Kaise.” A conversation with Sinha and her special musical relationship with the Superstar… as a Jabardast Fan.

It was Sinha’s first outing in the Hindi cinema, and she still can’t believe that she had managed to fulfil a part of her dream – write the lyrics for Badshah SRK.

Retaining the essence of the original Jabardast Fan song in Hindi, she peppered the song with her nuanced choices of frequently spoken Bhojpuri words that helped the song strike a chord with Bhojpuri speaking youngsters. The Bhojpuri version of the song was a rage in Western Bihar, eastern Uttar Pradesh and Jharkhand.

Reminiscing her Fan moment, Sinha says, “It was a dream come true for someone like me to write a song for the superstar. SRK’s movie was about how a fan makes a star. In my case, too, I would say, Fan made me a star, in some measure.”

Dr Ranju Sinha.

A renowned name in the Bhojpuri cine circuit, life is a beautiful coincidence for Sinha. Born in a middle-class family in Bihar’s Muzaffarpur district on March 15th, 1962, she was married off at the age of 16 to Neelmani Kumar Sinha, a Bihar government official. “I was married off soon after Class 10 exams. I thought marriage meant the end of my academic and creative pursuits. But my parents-in-law and husband proved me wrong. They ensured that I continued my studies and finished my Class 12th, bachelors, masters and even got a doctorate,” she says, with a lot of pride.

Armed with a doctorate, she joined Raj Narain Singh Inter College, Muzaffarpur, as a lecturer in the home science department in 2002. By then, her two children — daughter Pooja Priyanka and son Pancham Priyam — had been packed off to New Delhi for schooling.

In 2005, her daughter moved to pursue an undergraduate program in audiology and speech therapy at Ali Yavar Jung National Institute for the Hearing Handicapped, Mumbai. “My daughter was all alone in Mumbai. She was homesick, so I thought it would be a good idea to move to Mumbai; Pooja would get to stay at home with me and would be able to focus on her studies.”

A homemaker, who mostly spent her days and nights taking care of her home and family in Muzaffarpur, Sinha shifted base to Mumbai only to give company to her daughter. She had planned to return home after Pooja completed her studies. As they say, man proposes, God disposes. “Initially, I did not know what to do with a lot of free time in this city. But it made me discover the creative side of my personality, which has been the biggest takeaway of being in Mumbai.” She was fond of writing, and for the first few months, all that she did was contribute articles for magazines and newspapers in Mumbai. Her penchant for writing made her explore options as a lyricist in the film industry. A movie buff, Sinha enjoyed watching the latest releases, but she had zilch knowledge about the craft of film-making as she admits today. But she was destined to be part of the film industry.

She says her elder brother, Mumbai-based businessman late Raman Kumar Bachchan, helped her get a toehold. It was on his insistence that she started looking for a meaningful creative engagement in the Bhojpuri film industry. “I started my career by penning devotional songs in Bhojpuri for ‘Chhatt Maharani’ for T-Series.” Dhananjay Mishra had composed the songs while Manoj Tiwari, and Anuradha Paudwal sang the songs. “It was a good start for a newcomer. Renowned singers such as Manoj Tiwari and Anuradha Paudwal lent their voices to my words. I was overjoyed.”

There was no looking back for Sinha after her debut as a songwriter for this devotional album. Buoyed by the success of this venture, she went on to pen devotional songs for two more albums — Chalo Re Sai Dham and Sai Base Hain Kan Kan Mein. Today she is a sought-after lyricist and story writer in the Bhojpuri film industry, having penned songs for hit movies such as Sautan, Ajab Devra ke Gazab Bhaujai, Niruha Banal Don, Rangbaaz and Jai Ho Jagdamba Mai. But that’s not all. She successfully forayed into film production and direction under her home banner, Gauri Shankar Arts Private Limited. She has produced half a dozen movies, including Jai Ho Jagdamba Mai, Chandrika, Preet Bada Anmol, Paro Patna Wali and among many others.

“In a way, I am in the best phase of my life. My children are doing well. Pooja is married to Dr Shashank Kumar, a dentist here in Mumbai, and the couple has a son Dhwanit. My son Pancham is currently working as Project Manager in NIIT Technologies in London, and he lives there with his wife and son.” So does she intend to leave Mumbai and return to her roots? “As of now, my hands are full. There is so much to do that I can’t even think of doing so by any means. I can’t even afford to take a break from work.”

Recalling her long association with Tiwari, Sinha says, “We go back a long way. His voice has the Midas touch. It did wonders to my just launched career way back in 2006. I was glad to have him lend his voice for the Bhojpuri version of Jabardast Fan.”

However, the call from Yash Raj Films was quite surprising for Sinha, as she fondly recalls. “I had initially dismissed it as a prank call. I couldn’t believe in my wildest dreams that I got a call from YRF to sing a song for their movie. When I checked with the production house, I realized it was indeed true. I was over the moon,” she says.

Sinha is a self-proclaimed Fan of SRK. The Bhojpuri Fan song is still popular among the masses. But unfortunately, not many people know that ‘E dilwa tohre jabardast ab toh fan ho gayil‘ was my work. The crowd goes berserk still to hear it in Bhojpuri, and that gladdens my heart.”

‘धन’ और ‘धान’ की अतीत में सिसकता धनबाद

24 अक्टूबर को धनबाद के स्थापना दिवस पर उत्तम मुखर्जी का लेख

धनबाद कभी ‘धान’ की धरती था।धान उगलती धरती के कारण ही यहां के गांव-कस्बों का नाम खेतों की प्रकृति के अनुसार निर्धारित किए गए थे। मसलन कनाली, बाइद, बहियार, टांड़, आदि। रामकनाली, बहियारडीह, छाताबाद, छाताटांड़… आदि। यहां धान की उपज खूब होती थी। दामोदर, कतरी, कारी, खोदो..नदियों से घिरा था इलाका। पर्वत-पहाड़, वन-पाथर से आच्छादित एक मनोरम स्थल।बहियार खेतों में पानी सालोभर रहता था। बाइद खेतों की सिंचाई नदियों के पानी से होती थी। पहले धनबाद मानभूम जिले का हिस्सा था। उस समय बाइद खेत के अनुरूप धनबाद का नाम ‘धनबाइद’ था।
DHANBAID का मुख्यालय पुरुलिया था। वर्तमान में पुरुलिया पश्चिम बंगाल के हिस्से में है। धनबाद के सहायक उपायुक्त ADC बैठते थे। ICS लुबी साहब ADC थे। उन्होंने ही DHANBAID से I शब्द को विलोपित कर शहर का नाम धनबाद ..DHANBAD रखा।
भाषा के नाम पर भी यह शहर विवाद झेल चुका है।जो विवाद गहराया था वह बंगाल और बिहार के मुख्यमंत्रीद्वय डॉ विधान चन्द्र राय और श्रीकृष्ण सिंह की उदार भावना और पहल के बिना खत्म होना मुश्किल था। सन’ 1905 में बंग भंग आंदोलन हुआ । 1911 में इसे खारिज़ किया गया । वर्ष’ 1912 में मानभूम को बिहार-उड़ीसा के अधीन रखा गया। 1921 में मानभूम कांग्रेस का गठन हुआ । निवारण चन्द्र दासगुप्ता अध्यक्ष और अतुल चन्द्र घोष सचिव बने । आज़ादी के बाद मानभूम बिहार के हिस्से गया । ज़िला स्कूल में हिंदी का साइन बोर्ड लगाया गया ।हिंदी को जिले की भाषा बनाई गई। फिर भाषा आंदोलन शुरू हुआ । वर्ष’ 1948 में अध्यक्ष और सचिव समेत कांग्रेस के 35 सदस्यों ने हिंदी के विरोध में इस्तीफ़ा दिया । बांग्ला के समर्थन में लोक सेवक संघ का गठन हुआ। कोलकाता मार्च हुआ ।पाखेरबेड़ा का यह आंदोलन देश भर में चर्चित हुआ । बांग्ला के समर्थन में सत्याग्रह , हाल जोल और टुसू सत्याग्रह आंदोलन शुरू हुए। विवाद के नाम पर भाईचारे की कब्र खोदी जानी शुरू हो गई। बांग्ला-हिंदी मिलकर ‘जय हिंद’ के लिए कुर्बानी दी जा रही थी । अब दोनों भाषाएं आमने-सामने थीं । बाद में बंगाल के मुख्यमंत्री डॉ विधान चन्द्र राय और बिहार के सीएम श्रीकृष्ण सिंह ने मिलकर राह आसान किए । 1956 के 24 अक्टूबर को 2007 वर्गमील क्षेत्र , 16 थाना मिलाकर मानभूम से पुरूलिया को अलग कर बंगाल का हिस्सा बनाया गया जबकि धनबाद को बिहार में रखा गया । उस समय बोकारो भी धनबाद का हिस्सा था। बाद में टिस्को के आग्रह पर बंगाल के मुख्यमंत्री डॉ विधान चन्द्र राय ने धनबाद के साथ चांडिल , ईचागढ़ और पटमदा को भी बिहार के हवाले किए ।

मानभूम कल्चर आज भी धनबाद के गांवों में देखने को मिलता है। टुसू, भादू की पूजा आज भी यहां के गांवों में होती है।
मानभूम का जब विभाजन हुआ पणिक्कर कमीशन का गठन हुआ था। मानभूम के कौन सा इलाके को बंगाल को दिया जाए और कौन इलाका बिहार में रहे, इसे लेकर आयोग के सदस्य उलझन में रहे। बाद में उलूध्वनि(शादी में बंगाली समाज की महिलाएं एक ध्वनि निकालती है), अंडा-डिम, रस्सी-दड़ी, डोल-बाल्टी…इन शब्दों के सहारे सर्वे कर…चास रोड के दूसरे छोर के हिस्से को पुरुलिया में रखकर बंगाल को दिया गया। शेष हिस्से को धनबाद बनाकर बिहार का जिला बनाया गया।

धनबाद के सांसद पीआर चक्रवर्ती को जानिए…

मानभूम से ही अलग होकर धनबाद का गठन हुआ है। पीआर चक्रवर्ती यहां से एकबार सांसद रह चुके हैं । पीआर चक्रवर्ती नेहरूजी के करीबी रहे । एकबार उन्हें धनबाद से सांसद का टिकट मिल गया । हालांकि उनकी यहां कोई पहचान नहीं थी । लोगों को उम्मीद थी कि डीसी मल्लिक को कांग्रेस टिकट देगी । हालांकि चक्रवर्ती के पास नेहरूजी का एक पत्र था जिसमें उन्होंने कहा था कि उन्हें वोट देना है। वह लेटर काफी चर्चे में आया था । लोग कहते हैं बिना पहचान के सिर्फ़ नेहरूजी के पत्र के सहारे पीआर चक्रवर्ती चुनावी वैतरणी पार कर गए थे । उस समय भी नेताओं के बीच नाराज़गी होती थी लेकिन लोग दुश्मन नहीं बनते थे । मल्लिक का टिकट कटने के बाद भी चक्रवर्ती उनके आवास में ही ठहरते थे और मल्लिक उन्हें मदद भी करते थे । पीआर चक्रवर्ती ढाका विश्वविद्यालय के प्रोफेसर
रहे । ढाका वर्तमान में बांग्लादेश की राजधानी है ।विभाजन के समय चक्रवर्ती मानभूम के पुरूलिया आ गए थे । वे एआईसीसी के सचिव भी बने बाद में देवघर स्थित अनुकूल ठाकुर के आश्रम में चले गए। फिर धनबाद की ओर कभी रूख नहीं किए।

भुला दिए गए आदिनाथ

आदिनाथ भूगर्भशास्त्री थे। वे NCDC की कोलियरियों में निदेशक भी थे। कोल माइनिंग फ्यूल रिसर्च इंस्टीच्यूट की स्थापना में भी उनकी भूमिका रही। जब सत्तर के दशक में चारी कमिटी की सिफारिश पर कोयला उद्योग का राष्ट्रीयकरण हुआ, वे वैज्ञानिक पद्धति से खनन का प्रस्ताव दिए थे। उनके प्रस्ताव पर अमल नहीं हुआ। धनबाद का कोयला उद्योग आज मरणासन्न हो गया। आज जब अन्य कोयला कम्पनियां 100 मिलियन टन से ऊपर कोयला उत्पादन कर रही हैं। धनबाद स्थित BCCL 25 मिलियन टन में सिमट गई है। डेढ़ लाख से ऊपर मैनपावर BCCL में था। आज 39 हजार में सिकुड़ गया। फिर भी मज़दूर सरप्लस लग रहे। अगर आउटसोर्सिंग कम्पनियां न रहे तो कम्पनी खुद के बूते पर खड़ी नहीं रह सकती है। भारत-रूझ मैत्री के तहत खुले मुकुंदा प्रोजेक्ट और भारत-फ्रांस मैत्री के तहत शुरू किए गए लांग वाल मेकानाइज़्ड खदान अब अतीत की कहानी बन चुके हैं। झरिया, कतरास और केंदुआ शहर आग और भूधसान की चपेट में है।
धनबाद को गर्व है

धनबाद से निकले सुबोध जयसवाल आज CBI के निदेशक हैं। राकेश अस्थाना भी धनबाद के CBI SP रह चुके हैं। वीरेंद्र सिंह धनोआ ने सर्जिकल स्ट्राइक किया, उनका बचपन धनबाद में बीता। जस्टिस एसबी सिन्हा सुप्रीम कोर्ट के जज बने। धनबाद को इस बात पर भी गर्व हो सकता है कि कोकिंग कोल सिर्फ यही इलाका देता है। देश का दूसरा सबसे बड़ा राजस्व धनबाद रेल डिवीजन देता है ।CMPF, DGMS, ISM-IIT, CIMFR जैसी केंद्रीय संस्थाएं यहां हैं। लोगों को पीड़ा है कि आज भी धनबाद को एक अदद एयरपोर्ट नहीं मिला। एक बेहतर अस्पताल नहीं मिला। कई शहरों को जोड़नेवाले गया ब्रिज आज संकट में है। शहर के हृदयस्थल बैंक मोड़ से लेकर स्टेशन तक लोगों के लिए पैदल चलना भी मुश्किल है। तीन शहर अस्तित्व संकट से जूझ रहे हैं। यहां की प्रमुख भाषा खोरठा को आज भी उचित सम्मान नहीं मिला। लाखों फॉलोवर होने के बावजूद विनय तिवारी, मनोज देहाती जैसे लेखक-कलाकार को यथोचित सम्मान नहीं मिला। मिलेनियम सिटी बनाने का सपना टूटकर बिखर गया। रंगदारी, हत्या, कोयले के कारोबार पर कब्ज़ा… रोजमर्रे की बात है। कृषि तो कब का इतिहास बन चुकी है। न ‘धान’ और न ‘धन’ की धरती बन पा रहा धनबाद।

बचपन, बारिश, और सियार का ब्याह

… क्यूंकि आज यूँ ही मेरा दिल फिर ऐसी बारिश के लिए बेचैन हो गया।

आजकल मेरे बचपन के शहर धनबाद में फिर वैसी ही बारिश हो रही है जैसे सियार का ब्याह हो रहा हो। हाँ, आपने ठीक पढ़ा। हमने तो अपने बचपन ये कहावत खूब सुना था। दादी कहा करती थी – जब धूप में बारिश होती थी तो कहीं दूर जंगल में सियार का ब्याह हो रहा होता है।या यह समझ लीजिये, जब सूरज बादलों के बीच से कहीं झाँक रहा हो और खिली धूप में बस थोडी देर के लिए जोर दार बारिश हो जाये तो उसे सियार का ब्याह होना कहते है।

A view of the rainbow from the terrace of my home in Dhanbad. Photo Credit: Shruti

सिर्फ दादी ही नहीं, मैंने कई लोगों को यही कहते सुना है।और उसके बाद इन्द्रधनुष भी दिखता था। मानो जैसे दुल्हन के लिए बहुभात का आयोजन प्रकृति ने स्वयं ही कर दिया हो। उन दिनों ऐसे मंज़र से ज्यादा खूबसूरत और कुछ नहीं हुआ करता था। पल छीन में बरसात, बादल, धूप, सूरज और इन्द्रधनुष सब देख कर सारी इंद्रियां तृप्त और मन प्रसन्न हो जाया करता था।


फिर कभी-कभार जब हम चारों बहनों को छत पर एक साथ आसमान में दो इंद्रधनुष दिख जाया करता था तो ऐसा लगता है कि जैसे हमें कुबेर का खज़ाना मिल गया हो। आप सोच रहे होंगे ऐसा भला क्यों ? क्यूंकि हमनें कभी किसी को यूँ कहते सुना था – अगर एक साथ दो इंद्रधनुष दिख जाये तो तुरंत किसी कपड़े के टुकड़े में गांठ बांध कर कामना करने से वो कामना पूरी हो जाती है। ऐसा कर के हम चारों बहनों ने न जाने घर की कितनी ही चुन्नियों और रूमालों के कोनों में गांठ बाँधा होगा।अब यह तो मेरी माँ ही बता सकती है क्यूंकि वह आज तक इन गांठों का रहस्य नहीं समझ पायीं। और न हम चारों को यह याद है कि गांठ बांध कर हमारी कितनी मनोकामनाएं अब तक पूरी हुई हैं।

A rainbow hanging atop the hills as seen from my home in Dhanbad. Picture credit: Shruti

सियार का ब्याह क्यूँ कहा जाता था ये आज तक मालूम नहीं कर पाए – न हम और और न कोई और। ऐसा था हमारा बचपन और उसकी बारिशें।

(बारिशों के पानी, बचपन की यादों और हज़ारों अधूरी ख़्वाहिशों को सप्रेम समर्पित। क्यूंकि यह तीनों ही असंख्येय, अविस्मरणीय और अमूर्त हैं। Pictures provided by my sister Shruti from her recent Dhanbad trip; written by Shillpi | शिल्पी)

You are cordially invited to attend the wedding of dugwell and banyan tree

King Sri Krishnadevaraya wanted to organise the wedding of his royal well to find his wise advisor Tenali Rama, but a well is also wedded off in a colourful custom prevalent in Bihar and Jharkhand. 

The last you would have heard of a well’s wedding was in the folklore of Tenali Rama. Once upon a time, it had so happened that King Sri Krishnadevaraya and his wise advisor Tenali Rama had a spat over some trivial issue, following which the King banished him from the royal court. After this episode, Tenali Rama left the kingdom and moved to a nondescript village. Soon, the King realised that Tenali Rama was, in fact, correct, and he was keen to have him back in his court. But his special advisor was nowhere to be found. To look for him, the King had to use his wits. An announcement was made saying that the King had organised the royal well’s wedding in his capital Vijayanagar on the full moon night, and the village panchayats in his kingdom were cordially invited to attend the same with their wells in tow. The King wouldn’t tolerate any defiance, and if the villagers failed to bring their wells along for the wedding, they would be penalised 100 gold coins. The harried villagers sought Tenali Rama’s advice. He suggested that they meet the King the following day and tell him that the village wells would attend the wedding for sure, but only if the royal well comes and invites them personally. The King knew that it could be only his witty courtier Tenali Rama, who could give the villagers this suggestion to outwit the King’s proposed well’s wedding plan, and well, eventually both won the battle of wits in equal measure.  

Taking a leaf out of this folklore, a quaint neighbourhood — Vikas Nagar — in Ward no 8 of the Barh subdivision of Patna district organised a wedding of its well with great pomp and show on November 28, 2019.

Sharmila Kumari, Vikas Mitra of Ward no 8, Barh.
Read more here: https://en.gaonconnection.com/well-wedding-jharkhand-bihar-water/

Now, a vet for your pet is just a click away

The one-of-its-kind service by Practo will provide 24*7 remote consultations by licensed veterinarians for pets healthcare needs.

New Delhi, March 24, 2021: In a bid to create equitable healthcare access for all, Practo, India’s leading integrated healthcare company has launched veterinary telemedicine service on its platform. Teaming with licensed veterinarians across the country, the company will be offering 24*7 online consultation services for pets.

With more than 20 million households with pets in India, and a growth of over 40% in the adoption of puppies and cats  amid a work-from-home setting, this service will help pet owners get medical help for their furry friends from the comfort of their homes. They can easily talk to veterinarians regarding concerns that do not require a physical examination or warrant an emergency visit to the clinic.

Launched as a pilot project last month, Practo recorded nearly two lakh search queries from pet parents. Buoyed by the positive response, the speciality was launched officially as a part of the company’s telemedicine services. Most of the veterinary queries revolved around diet management for pets, medication for fleas and ticks, food allergies among pets, and behavioral problems among pets. Queries came in from more than 40 cities with Bengaluru, Hyderabad, Delhi NCR, and Mumbai topping the list.

Commenting on the new initiative, Siddhartha Nihalani, VP – Product, Practo, said, “Our foray into virtual veterinary care aligns with our larger vision of improving access to quality healthcare. With many people taking care of pets for the first time during the Coronavirus-induced lockdown, and several others anxious about visiting a clinic amid this pandemic, we want to enable them with a convenient yet reliable solution.”

Online veterinary consultations become even more convenient once the work from home situation ends, as pet parents can consult online whenever they have concerns without skipping work. This includes getting a second opinion for certain procedures, obtaining treatment or diet recommendations, asking follow-up questions, and seeking advice on behavioural issues – all in real-time and without exposing themselves to any risk.

Dr Daisy Rani, a veterinarian from Chennai with 25 years of experience, said, “Helping people to take care of their pets is the best part of being a veterinarian. Being able to do that in a way that is convenient for pet parents, especially during a pandemic like this, is a truly rewarding experience. I am glad that a company like Practo is going the extra mile for the well-being of pets by adding veterinary services as a part of its telemedicine platform.”

With Practo’s veterinary telemedicine service, pet parents can connect with a verified veterinarian via audio or video call or even text messages – anytime, anywhere – in just 60 seconds. Not only is this convenient, but also crucial to get timely advice on common but potentially harmful ailments. The service will be available both on Practo’s app as well as the website. To consult a veterinary doctor online, click here.

(Cover Image by Charlotte Govaert from Pixabay)

Facebook buddies

Meet my FB buddies!

Followers: Day or night, who love, like, and get wowed by my post, with all their might, without losing sight… yes, they are truly the friends in need, indeed. They are the most adorable bunch of dearies on my list for they mean what they say.

Haters: Hard to please ones who aren’t moved an iota with my social media antics, care two hoots and pretend to be indifferent, after all ignorance is bliss. There are six degrees of hatred that separate the so-called friend’s big ego and me.

Stalkers: They are the online news gatherers, who love to keep an eye on my (their friend’s) social media movements. So what I post, react, comment and why, should be in their know-how, and that’s the limit of their online friendship.

Screamers: They love to go public with their love and hatred, in equal measures. Applicable for couples who not only think but also scream aloud from their FB walls, wishing their better halves – loving wives and adorable hubbies – on their anniversaries and birthdays so that all others in their friend list get the message, loud and clear.

Creepers: The ones who like to bomb my FB post with their not-so-sensible, and often stupid comments. They leave no stone unturned to make the wall divide best of best friends over religious, political or social views, comments, and opinions. Lo and behold, the wall looks no less than a mini war zone.

Socializers: Their favourite online past-time is to like, share and comment on the posts of celebrities of all hues. After all, they are the “Jabra” fans, and the stars, politicians, sportsperson, etc., should know of their existence, if not in person, surely online.

Flaunters: Got it? Then flaunt it? Afterall, joy only doubles if you share the best that you have with your friends, enemies, and frenemies on your list. Some may like it, others may hate it, a few others will ignore it too, but then that’s what makes it all the more interesting.

Fakers: These kinds don’t mean even a word of the Awws, Muahs, Hugs, Wows and all sweet nothings that they so liberally post in my comment box. What they say is what they don’t mean at all and what they don’t mean at all is what they love to say… so I better look before I leap.

Baiters: These friends wait patiently for their turn on FB. After all its more fun to bait for that one post, or comment that gives them the ultimate kick because all these bunch of losers love to see their buddy falter, fumble and fall, higher the better.